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Lasting memories: Savoring a piece of summer

After the final out, nobody rushed home.

They never do.

The girls gathered around the trophy. Parents gathered around the girls. Grandparents waited for one more picture. Brothers and sisters chased each other through the outfield.

Somebody laughed.

Somebody cried.

Friends stood around talking.

Nobody seemed to care what time it was.

And nobody seemed to be in a hurry.

Because deep down, everybody knew they were standing in the middle of something they would remember forever.

That’s what I thought about Sunday in Jim Thorpe.

Not the score.

Not the championship.

Not even the trip to states.

But the moments afterward.

The hugs.

The pictures.

The stories already being told.

Jim Thorpe just happened to be the latest example. I’ve seen it after Legion games. I’ve seen it after Connie Mack games and Little League tournaments. Win or lose, people linger.

And maybe that’s what makes summer baseball and softball so special.

Everybody has comfort food.

A favorite meal. A family recipe. Something familiar. Something timeless. Something that reminds us of home.

Around here, I think summer baseball and softball serve much the same purpose.

They’re comfort food.

Not because every season ends with a championship. Not because every memory is perfect.

But because they remind us who we are.

There are plenty of ways to tell summer has arrived.

Trips to the beach.

Fireflies at dusk.

Cookouts and fireworks.

Around here, though, summer often feels measured differently.

By innings.

By folding chairs.

By the sound of aluminum bats and the smell of freshly cut grass.

And by the boys — and girls — of summer.

More than any other season, summer baseball and softball have a way of connecting people.

Not just schools.

Communities.

Parents and grandparents.

Friends and neighbors.

Little Leaguers and Blue Mountain League veterans. People who have been coming to the ballfield for years and people who are just beginning.

It takes a village to host a tournament.

And it takes one to raise a ballplayer.

Parents coach. Grandparents keep score.

Volunteers do the rest.

Nobody asks for recognition.

They do it because they remember.

They remember being kids.

They remember their own parents doing the same thing.

And they know that someday another generation will do it for their children.

Summer baseball and softball don’t belong to one school.

Or one league.

Or one age group.

They belong to everybody.

From Little League to the Blue Mountain League, the uniforms change.

The thread doesn’t.

You watch them grow up.

Then one day, you realize you’ve grown up with them.

The Little Leaguer becomes a Connie Mack player.

The Connie Mack player becomes a Legion player.

And eventually, somebody who once chased foul balls is home from college for the summer.

The player becomes a coach.

The coach becomes a parent.

The parent becomes a grandparent.

And somehow, many of the same people make the journey together.

Friends.

Families.

Communities.

Over the years, I’ve learned something.

I can’t always tell you who won a Tuesday night Connie Mack game five years ago.

But I remember the people.

I remember the summers.

I remember seeing the same families from field to field.

I remember conversations behind the backstop. And I remember championship teams taking pictures long after the final out because nobody wanted the day to end.

The truth is, not everybody gets to leave with a banner.

Most don’t.

But everybody leaves with something.

A picture.

A memory.

A friendship.

A story they’ll tell years later.

The losing team will remember, too.

Maybe that’s why, years later, people rarely talk about the score first.

They talk about the trip.

The pictures.

The stories.

They talk about “remember when.”

In a world that seems to move faster every year, summer baseball and softball still ask us to slow down.

To sit in a folding chair.

To keep score.

To watch the sunset.

To talk.

To linger.

To enjoy being together.

Years from now, nobody will remember how many hours volunteers spent preparing the field.

But they’ll remember that the field was ready.

Nobody will remember who grilled hamburgers or changed garbage bags.

But they’ll remember being there.

That’s the thing about love.

Sometimes the most important things are the things nobody notices.

Maybe that’s why summer baseball and softball feel so timeless.

Much like the game itself, they’re passed down.

Not just the sport.

The traditions.

The people.

The stories.

The memories.

And perhaps that’s why, after the final out, nobody rushes home.

They take pictures.

They gather around.

They laugh.

They hug.

They linger.

Because deep down, everybody knows they’re standing in the middle of something they’ll remember forever.

They don’t just take home a trophy.

They take home a memory.

A piece of summer.

A piece of home.

Jim Thorpe’s District 18 11-12 Little League all-star players line up before their game against Towamensing on Saturday. KAIA MEHNERT/SPECIAL TO THE TIMES NEWS
A Jim Thorpe volunteer prepares the field before Saturday’s District 18 Little League game. KAIA MEHNERT/SPECIAL TO THE TIMES NEWS