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Grateful: A love letter to the people who hold us up

November is always a special time of year. It’s the softer, more subtle counterpart to the holiday insanity that follows in December, and the pumpkin-spiced, fall foliage-seeking weekends that precede it in October.

The days may get shorter and cooler, but also cozier, quieter and more reflective.

This year, however, that reflection feels like it’s been turned on hyperdrive — and it’s landing, more than anything, in gratitude.

I know, I know … “gratitude.”

I can practically feel your eyes rolling as I write this. How typical of a column during the season of “thanks,” when Thanksgiving plans and grocery lists are already being made.

But frankly, there are worse things I could choose to write about, so come along for the ride.

Every month or so, I sit around a kitchen table with a group of friends for an evening we jokingly refer to as our “Wine Down.” There’s snacks and wine, plenty of laughter, and inevitably a conversation that starts with, “OK, I need your opinion on something …”

We’re all at different stages of our careers and lives, working in different fields and bringing different life experiences to the table. But more importantly is why those evenings exist, period.

When I was relatively new in my role at the CCEDC, one of these women — someone I was only loosely acquainted with at the time — invited me to coffee and made something very clear: While I was busy with my head down, doing the work and figuring things out, there were people in my corner I didn’t know existed, and that those people wanted me to succeed. They were rooting for me, even though I hadn’t met them yet.

I still get chills thinking about what that meant to me then — and what it still means today.

She suggested dinner with a few of those women, and I offered to host. Two years and many “Wine Downs” later, I’m lucky enough to call them friends — because what a gift it is to not only have people see your potential, but to offer friendship and mentorship to help you navigate your way towards it.

Over time, I’ve realized that one of the greatest gifts we can give another person is not simply support, but the kind of belief that helps someone see their own potential a little more clearly.

I’m fortunate to see that kind of belief in action all over Carbon County every day.

In less than a week, our Annual Awards Gala will celebrate a record number of individuals and organizations whose work ranges from supporting students and veterans, to creating opportunities for businesses and strengthening our communities. Each, in their own way, has helped make Carbon County a place we can be proud of.

Our Carbon County Industrial Development Authority Board is dedicated to investing in small businesses seeking equipment to establish or expand their operations, offering low-interest financing to help entrepreneurs bring their dreams to life — supporting those bold enough to make the jump and build businesses here.

In the last month, I’ve watched industry leaders at Carbon Career & Technical Institute give their time and expertise to help prepare students for successful careers. At the Carbon County Community Foundation’s 20/20 Circle Dinner, I felt the energy of a room full of people invest directly in ideas they believed could make our region better.

Sometimes, though, it’s much smaller.

It’s a Chamber Ambassador spotting a new face and making sure they leave with a few new connections. It’s someone saying, “You need to see the work this person is doing — let me introduce you.” It’s a mentor suggesting you apply for the job, a business owner taking a chance on an employee, or a friend reminding you what you’re capable of when you’ve temporarily forgotten.

Those moments matter.

Our community becomes stronger when we intentionally create opportunities for others to succeed — when we notice potential, encourage it and, perhaps most importantly, say it out loud.

This November, I’m grateful for those people — the ones who say it out loud and hold each other up. I’m grateful to live and work in a county filled with people doing the same for others every day.

And maybe that’s the best way we can show our gratitude: by making sure someone else knows we’re in their corner, too.