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Victims’ families urge love, kindness as Idaho campus mourns

BOISE, Idaho (AP) - As hundreds of students mourned together inside the University of Idaho’s stadium Wednesday night, family members of four slain classmates urged them to raise their eyes from grief and focus on love and the future.

“The only cure to pain is love - it’s the only thing that’s going to heal us; it’s the only thing that’s going to heal you,” Steve Goncalves, the father of Kaylee Goncalves, said. “That will make a difference, and that’s something they can see where they’re at right now: That you changed your life a little bit, that you’re a little bit nicer, a little bit kinder.”

Some in the crowd held each other and wiped their eyes as they remembered Kaylee Goncalves, 21, of Rathdrum, Idaho; Madison Mogen, 21, of Coeur d’Alene, Idaho; Xana Kernodle, 20, of Post Falls, Idaho; and Kernodle’s boyfriend, Ethan Chapin, 20, of Mount Vernon, Washington. The four were stabbed to death Nov. 13 at a rental home near campus in the quiet university town of Moscow, Idaho, and law enforcement has yet to name a person of interest in the case. Fears that the killer could strike again has prompted many students to finish the semester by taking online classes from the perceived safety of their hometowns.

Ben Mogan, Madison’s father, said that she was his only child, so “everything she ever did was such a big deal.”

Madison’s best friend was Kaylee. The girls met as sixth graders, Kaylee’s father Goncalves told the crowd, and were inseparable friends from that moment on.

“They went to high school together, then they started looking at colleges, they came here together. They eventually got into the same apartment together,” Steve Goncalves said. “And in the end, they died together, in the same room, in the same bed.”

“It’s a shame and it hurts, but the beauty of the two always being together comforts us,” he said.

A person attending a vigil for the four University of Idaho students who were killed on Nov. 13, 2022, cries as she listens to family members talk about the victims, Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022, in Moscow, Idaho. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)
A person attending a vigil for the four University of Idaho students who were killed on Nov. 13, 2022, cries as she listens to family members talk about the victims, Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022, in Moscow, Idaho. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)
A photo of Maddie Mogen, who was one of four University of Idaho students killed on Nov. 13, 2022, is shown as her father, Ben Mogen, speaks on Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022, during a vigil for the four students in Moscow, Idaho. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)
Stacy Chapin talks about her son, Ethan Chapin, who was one of four University of Idaho students who were killed on Nov. 13 as she speaks Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022, during a vigil for the four students in Moscow, Idaho. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)
Steve Goncalves talks about his daughter, Kaylee Goncalves, who was one of four University of Idaho students who were killed on Nov. 13, 2022, on Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022, during a vigil for the four students in Moscow, Idaho. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)
A flyer seeking information about the killings of four University of Idaho students who were found dead on Nov. 13, 2022, is displayed on a table along with buttons and bracelets, Wednesday, Nov. 30 during a vigil in memory of the victims in Moscow, Idaho. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)
People attending a vigil for the four University of Idaho students who were killed on Nov. 13, 2022, fill the Kibbie Dome before the start of the event, Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022, in Moscow, Idaho. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)
People attending a vigil for the four University of Idaho students who were killed on Nov. 13, 2022, stand in the Kibbie Dome as family members talk about their loved ones, Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022, in Moscow, Idaho. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)
People attending a vigil for the four University of Idaho students who were killed on Nov. 13, 2022, stand in the Kibbie Dome as family members talk about their loved ones, Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022, in Moscow, Idaho. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)
People attend a vigil at the University of Idaho Boise Campus, Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022, in downtown Boise, Idaho, to honor the four students killed in Moscow, Idaho, earlier this month. (Darin Oswald/Idaho Statesman via AP)
After lighting candles, people gather at the University of Idaho Boise Campus, Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022, in downtown Boise, Idaho, to honor the four students killed in Moscow, Idaho, earlier this month. (Darin Oswald/Idaho Statesman via AP)
Idaho State Police Trooper Brandalyn Crapo stands guard on Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022 as she works near the podium at a vigil for the four University of Idaho students who were killed on Nov. 13, 2022, in Moscow, Idaho. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)
C. Scott Green, the president of the University of Idaho, walks to the podium, Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022, before speaking at a vigil for the four University of Idaho students who were killed on Nov. 13, 2022, in Moscow, Idaho. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)
Bracelets with the names of the four University of Idaho students who were killed on Nov. 13, 2022, are displayed on a table at a vigil for the victims, Wednesday, Nov. 30, 2022, in Moscow, Idaho. (AP Photo/Ted S. Warren)